I hope the people who have commented critically about gathering thousands of dollars are the first to donate to what I hope will be a fundraiser. I don't have a lot, but will gladly give what I can.
Please consider creating a fundraiser and linking it here. And everywhere.
It took guts for you to accept your son, no questions asked (especially in the days of dead beat parents) and for your wife to open her heart and her home. It took more guys to write about it.
Thank you for sharing this with us.