Wow. dude. Your comment says a lot about you. I'm sorry you've been through some shit (obviously) but you read a different story than I did.
Also, I have a bunch of unwanted fat on my body. It would not be ok for someone to call me a lard ass even if they were right.
It's all about the tone and intention.
From the 10 year old and from adults making snarky comments under a heartfelt story.